Everybody is amazing, I believe that. It's not some bullshit I say to get free lunch or I am mr. happymcfuck.
This is one moral standard in all social interactions that more people should adopt.
Never, ever see people through filters.
That bitch is fat, that guy looks retarded, he plays pokemon and he's 32, this girl is a slut, nerd, geek, emo...
They are still people, connect to them, RESPECT them, try LISTENING for once because everybody longs to be heard, It's not like you have to have sex with them later on.
You may not even have to like the girl (or guy), but she (he) can have other cute friends. Win win for everybody, you made a new friend, being social, hooking up.
Those shallow guys who wouldn't talk to anybody but hot girls in bars and talk about bagging girls all the time, they never get laid. Those who brag, they never are respected. Those who never listen, are never heard.
Even sometimes your closest friends can be misleading, one of my closest friends told me this girl is weird, and this whole time I took her words and viewed this girl through a filter. Once I actually got to know her myself, she was an amazing person with alot going for her and is a talented musician.
Recently, I realized that i could have lost the chance to meet alot of friends if I would have caved and actually listen to what people say.
I once read that humans are running 80% autopilot on 80 percent of the time. Be smarter, be a socially intelligent person.
Never let other people's initial judgements of a person become YOUR'S, go find that person and see for yourself first.
Don't blame people, people are human. Human are prone to errors. They make mistakes, they are emotional, they don't know any better.
Be better than that, don't jump on the bandwagon because somebody said so or it's the cool thing to do, don't view people through filters. You are missing out on meeting amazing people and finding potentially a few life long friends.
You have it in you, you are so fucking money. Just like those guys in Swingers.
PS: Girls, guys. Stop playing that hard to get game, be sincere. Try it. You got game.
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5 comments:
great post JC. i love you.
I think what it comes down to is ego.
The act of categorizing someone is a self-worth inflater. It supposes that other people simple and 2 dementional, while you yourself are a 3 dementional, unique human being. Other people can be summarized, while you must be explained in detail.
If this holds true, then the quickest way to stop filtering people is to stop viewing life as a competition. When someone stops caring about where he or she stands on the ladder of success, then they stop caring to place others on that ladder as well.
Aww crap. Now I'm all philisophiclamable... Thanks a lot dude.
(Loving the posts)
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I am loving your reply, made me think!
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